The Log in my own eye pt 3 No nagging, now what?

So after I finally stopped getting after my husband for not paying me the attention that I wanted and thought he should..I found myself strangely bored! I don't know who else has had this experience, but it was just no fun not getting after my husband. Not telling him how he has failed just sucked all the joy outta my life! I'm just kiddin!! but it did leave an eerie void in my life. I was now free to focus on what I was doing and how I was living life and guess what...I ended up finding unadressed weaknesses in my life. I ended up screwing up too! Royally!! Wow!! Jesus was right! Yet again! Once I concentrated on my own life and just let him live his I found logs in my eyes. The things I told him not to do I found myself doing!! I prefered to keep myself busy keeping him in check ..that was working for me...but it wasn't working for him. And ultimately I beielve that for the woman to be happy and fulfilled in her heterosexual realationship with her male companion that she should please him, or make him happy MOST of the time. I say most of the time because we can't be everything to everybody all the time and plus some people just can't be pleased. But for a loving relationship with your husband/wife I do believe a considerable amount of time should be spent on finding ways to PLEASE them instead of CORRECT them. Which is what I had been doing. so anyways...the logs in my eyes are there...and I just appreciate my husband for forgiving me my faults and I will continue to forgive him for his instead of calling him out on them becasue a good marriage is made up of Two good forgivers...as they say! Love ya!  be blessed and don't stress your mate!